what we talk about

Going back to the enlightening conversation I had last night with my roommates I would like to talk about a number of things. Virginity, sex, hooking up and boyfriends. OK this started after my roommate E asked my other roommate M asked about sex positions (don't ask me how this came up but things like this always do). M explained that it is easy when you know your partner etc. Boring relationship stuff. Then we started talking about hooking up. M has hooked up with a few people but she is more of relationship gal, only serious boyfriends for her. Heck even when she has a boyfriend she has boys lining up to be with her. Ah well M just has a charmed life and we all know it. We don't resent it but we just wish she would understand that some of us don't get everything we bat our eyes at. Meanwhile E has hooked up with a number of people and by a number I mean, roughly the same number of states in the Union. Nor does she remember all of them. But She is still a virgin. Where as M is not. So what does all this promiscuity add up to? M thinks E is kind of a slut (not a direct quote but that's what she seemed to say). M's argument for this was the lack of emotion in the hookups and that they were just sad attempts to fill an emptiness. E counters this by saying she chooses to do this and does it for fun.

This leads us to the next discussion. Why is it ok for guys to be sluts but then girls are called out more often. At least we now show our ankles without getting arrested these days.

Who is wrong M or E?